Dear Penelope,
We have been needing to revamp bedtime for a while. You are the ultimate bedtime procrastinator. As soon as we closed the door it was a matter of minutes before you started yelling for us or knocking. "I need more water! I need to go pee! I need my blankets! I want you to snuggle with me! I dropped my book! My baby fell down!" And it continued for an hour. It didn't matter what time you went to bed. You were in a poor routine. Since you share a room with Michela, she started encouraging you to yell or knock. She didn't need anything from us but knew that you would be all to eager to get out of bed. Not helpful.
So we introduced bedtime sticks. After dinner one night you were each given two craft sticks to decorate. Once they were decorated, I wrote your names on each stick. We then put them on your dresser next to your bed. If you knocked or called for us you had to give us a stick. So you have two opportunities to go to the bathroom, get more water, or ask for a snuggle. For the first week I encouraged you to keep your sticks so you could earn a giant cookie at the end of the week. It worked!!! Now you call for us once - ONCE! That's a huge improvement from fifteen or so requests / delays! Way to go! You usually use your freebee to get me to snuggle with you. I have no problem snuggling. :)
I love you baby girl!
With all my love,
Mommy